Category: Stuff I Like


Amazon.com: WAR (9780446556248): Sebastian Junger: Books.

As y’all know Sebastian Junger is the absolute love of my life. Someday I’m going to write an absolutely nauseatingly Mary Sue book starring the two of us, until then I’m usually salivating to get my hands on anything he’s written. I’ve been waiting for his latest, War, to come out in paperback. Well, guess what Santa left in my stocking? Yep. It’s so good I read it in two days flat. This man is so unbelievably talented he seriously makes me want to step away from the keyboard.

Reading his account of life in the Korengal valley in Afghanistan has inspired me to do a serious rewrite on my book, Buttercream. The lead character in that book is a helicopter pilot, and I’ve got all types of insights into what that life is like, that I never had before. I think it will result in a better, more well-rounded book.

Look What I Got!

Olympus SP-600UZ 12 MP Digital Camera (Silver)

I’ve mentioned repeatedly that my old point and shoot camera died sometime last spring. I’ve been waffling about buying a new camera ever since. I guess the hubster got tired of hearing my noise because he finally bought me a camera yesterday. Isn’t it pretty? Here’s the thing. This is no point and shoot. I think he bought the camera HE’D like the have, because he’s actually a photographer. On the other hand, I barely manage not to chop people’s heads off or get my thumbs in the picture. He set it up on the computer last night. From reading the manual, I know that this thing will do everything but floss your teeth for you. What setting did he put it on for me? Auto. Clearly he’s a man who knows his wife’s limitations well.

Look at this fabulous picture he took of the Luke last night. Seriously that man should be a professional. It’s absolutely gorgeous.

Now I can finally show you the awesome table I scored back in August. Can you believe this was less than $200?! From the design and the use of book-matched rosewood veneer I’d say it’s from the 1940s. And the lovely Art Deco design is fabulous. There are four of those solid wood balls and there are shelves on the other side as well. It’s actually large enough to be a console table in a foyer or an occasional table in a living room. I love this thing like damn and whoa!

Sally Hansen Overnight Lip Recovery

Sally Hansen Overnight Lip Recovery

I’m crazy about my lips and am fanatical about maintaining them. They’re full and lush with lots of surface area, so they dry out easily. I normally use Philosophy Hope in a Tube, but thought I’d look for something a little less spendy. I saw this product on sale at the drugstore and gave it a shot. It’s really, really good. I don’t think it’s as good as Philosphy’s Hope in a Tube (love that stuff!) but it’s a third the price and I think it has great results.

Buy Sally Hansen Overnight Lip Recovery online at CVS.com.

If you haven’t read this one you’ve seriously missed out. Amazing book.

Amazon.com: Freedom’s Daughters: The Unsung Heroines of the Civil Rights Movement from 1830 to 1970 (9780684850139): Lynne Olson: Books.

At the Dark End of the Street: Black Women, Rape, and Resistance--A New History of the Civil Rights Movement from Rosa Parks to the Rise of Black Power

I ordered this book today. I can’t wait to get it, our foremothers went through hell and never got any credit. It’s about damned time.

Amazon.com: At the Dark End of the Street: Black Women, Rape, and Resistance–A New History of the Civil Rights Movement from Rosa Parks to the Rise of Black Power (9780307269065): Danielle L. Mcguire: Books.

Sports Bras

How many sports bras do I own? At least five and I’ve probably “lost” more than that. (Long story, don’t ask. I have a habit of losing bras, even when I like them.) Now ask me how many of my bras I actually like. One. Just one. And why is this one so good? Well for one thing it holds the girls in place, even when I do jumping jacks. And almost as importantly the damned thing zips up the front. By necessity sports bras are made to fit tightly. So what masochistic contortionist decided that they should go over your freaking head? Clearly it was someone a helluva  lot more flexible than me! So what do I do to keep my lone bra fresh? I wash it every night in the sink. It’s held up remarkably well. I know I need to get a couple more, but I don’t remember paying $42 for it! I must have, but usually I don’t drop that kind of cash on anything but Wacoal.

Champion Double Dry Zip-Front Sports Bra | Champion.

I’m so proud you’d think I’d made a movie. Monica’s movie, Sisters, which is unbelievably fabulous, and get this, it’s going to be shown at the American Black Film Festival in Miami in June. To quote Joe Biden, this is a BFD. Monica has been incredibly supportive of pretty much everyone including me, and she’s so talented. Even more importantly, she’s making the kind of movies we’ve all been dying for. We’ve got to get behind her and make sure she succeeds. Here’s the teaser, pass it along.

Thursday I did something really stupid with my ATM card and of course USAA locked me out. I dreaded calling them figuring I’d wind up talking to someone with bad English and they’d put me through some procedure that made no sense. At the very least I expected to have to wait for a new card. Instead I actually had PLEASANT customer service representative, who was actually AMERICAN. After verifying my information she reset my card, no muss, no fuss. Yay USAA!!!

I got a great deal on some sandals for the Luke at Zappos. Unfortunately, I ordered them too small. He just took a growth spurt and now wears a size TWO. Anyway, I called them up and again got an AMERICAN who was unbelievably pleasant. Yes, pleasant. Within minutes she did the exchange, emailed me a label to return the shoes and took my order for another pair. Good customer service isn’t dead y’all. Seriously I’m almost misty eyed.

Merrell Siena Sandals

Merrell Siena Sandals - Women's

These may be the most comfortable sandals I’ve ever owned. I don’t think I’ll ever take them off. It’s official. Merrell: The official shoe brand of Roslyn Hardy Holcomb.

Merrell Siena Sandals – Women’s at REI.com.

You’ve been my imaginary boyfriend for a minute now. We have too few true journalists left and  no real war correspondents since CNN has apparently buried Michael Ware somewhere in downtown Atlanta. I just finished reading WAR and can’t wait to see Restrepo. This book horrified me on a level that I haven’t been horrified in a long time. I don’t even know where to begin. As you know I’ve read all your articles in Vanity Fair but they don’t even come close to this. We need these stories, we need to have an understanding of what these young people are going through. We have a generation that’s been fighting wars now for nearly a decade, it’s incumbent upon us to understand their angst and their pain, at least on a visceral level.

Having said all that I’m gonna need you to stop going places where there’s a strong likelihood of you getting blown to kingdom come. Thank you.

I knew this book was going to make me cry going into it, but since Lisa and I are writing a series that takes place in approximately the same area and time period it was crucial that I read. Interestingly enough, I didn’t lose it over the beatings and rapes, brutal as those were. I lost it when the mistress started taking Lizzie’s children to bed with her (not in a sexual way). I thought about the intimacy of that, and how close I feel to my baby boy on those mornings when he climbs into bed with us. The thought of someone being able to take my son away and me not being able to do anything about it, dear God. Of course I’ve read the slave narratives. I know these things and worse things happened, but it’s one thing to read about it in the context of slavery as a whole and a totally different thing to see it through the eyes of a mother.

Both these books will break your heart, but in different ways. I will probably read both numerous times, but right now I’m too heart sore. I need to pick up the latest SEP to give me some comic relief.

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